Gacky

You were Al or Big Al to most, Fred to some, Gacky to the grandkids, but to me, you will always be dad, and I am so incredibly proud of that!  You taught me so much about life and what it means to be a good person...all by how you lived your own life.  You were brave and chose to do hard things right up until the end.  You loved us BIG, and we never had to doubt or question your love.  I am amazed at all you accomplished in your 80 years...in the Army and Navy, two tours in Vietnam, two Purple Hearts, a 34 year career in the Metro Nashville Police Department, and a devoted husband, dad, and Gacky.  You showed up for us when we needed you, and for that, I am forever grateful.  Thank you for showing me what it means to live with integrity, how to work hard and never give up, how to take on the hard things and still be strong, and how to love with actions instead of words.  Thank you for letting me "help" you with all your projects as kid, for teaching me the difference in a Phillips head and flat head screwdriver, for teaching me how to throw a ball, shoot a gun, to love working out and fitness, and to watch almost any sport and know what's going on.  I didn't know it at the time, but you were preparing me for my future as a boy mom.  I hope I am making you proud!  There are literally not enough words to express how much I love you and will miss you.  I'm thankful that your memory and legacy will live on.  I can see so much of you in Brody and Colby, and that makes me so proud.  You were one of a kind and a true hero!!  We know you're still watching over us, and any time we see a hummingbird, we will know it's you.  I love you so much daddy, and I will forever be your "Little Squirt."